Christmas things…..

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Well….another Christmas has come and gone….As I was putting away all the holiday things….it strikes me that some of my most cherished things…are the things that didn’t cost a lot of money.  For example, our Christmas tree star.  It was our first Christmas together, and Christopher and I got a small tree.  As we were decorating the tree, we realized we didn’t have anything to put on top of it.  I remembered that once, long ago, I had seen a star made from an old tin can.  We didn’t have a tin can…only an old soda can.  So, I cut a star from the soda can.  Every year, when we got the star out, I would say we should get a proper star…but Christopher always told me, no, this was a proper star.  And I guess, after all these years, I finally realize that he is right…it is a proper star and I wouldn’t have anything else for the top of our tree!

I got many wonderful presents this year….one of my favorites is a manger that my son gave to me.  He is incredibly creative.  He went into the workshop and took scraps of wood and, and using the scraps just as they were, he made me a manger.  I just love all the adorable people and animals!

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What a difference a year makes…..

The photo below sums up so much for me from this past year……a year ago…things seemed so peaceful and calm and perfect….okay..maybe not perfect.

What a difference a year makes…..I had a miscarriage, my husband lost his job, my mom got sick, my mother in law started to lose her sight, tuesday didn’t get into the middle school she had hoped for, my mom got sick again, my father in law lost his job, my mother in law went completely blind, my mom was in and out of the hospital and then died, I had another miscarriage……

At the same time, I have to look at all the wonderful things that have happened in this year…..christopher loves his new job, we’ve had a wonderful time having christopher’s parents living next door to us, tuesday loves her new school, we are all healthy…..

Things happen in life…good and bad…I just have to learn to focus a little more on the good…..a little less on the bad….get back to the peaceful and perfection…..

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p.s. ….the cake was so yummy..I made another for the next day with my in-laws!